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When candidate Obama wanted the stimulus talks to start rolling, even President W. couldn’t say no. The man has clout. We’ve seen it time and again…what B.O. wants, B.O. gets.

So now, President Obama wants healthcare reform to happen…immediately. And nothing can stop him…not the lobbyists from insurance companies, not the majority of the country that is happy with their current plan, and certainly not common financial sense. Nothing can stop him, except…

Abortion.

That’s right, the ol’ A-bomb, capable of ruining any friendship, romantic relationship, religious commitment, dinner party, or congressional bill, simply by becoming part of the discussion.

According to some unnamed Democratic sources, when the final version of the House healthcare bill makes its rounds for last-minute amendments – usually when pork appears and 1200 pages becomes 3000 – many pro-life Dems are going to offer amendments that would make using the “public option” plan for abortions illegal.

(Quick rundown of the house bill – if you don’t like what your health insurance company has to offer, you could exchange those services with the government plan, the public option, which is supposed to offer equal treatment at a fair price. These amendments would say that you can not exchange any part of your current plan that deals with abortions. So if you want insurance for it, you can’t use federal money, you have to stick with your current plan.)

The amendments, if passed, would allow for abortions covered by the public option in cases of rape, incest, or danger to the mother’s health.

Needless to say, this is not a minor bump in the legislative process, and it hasn’t been since that little court case 36 years ago, the one you would think happened yesterday, as the emotion surrounding it has only increased in the time since.

Now, I’m not going to sit here and debate pro-choice vs. pro-life. There’s no point. It’s a tired debate. It’s certainly still relevant, and as a pro-lifer both religiously and scientifically, I am not against open discussion. But let’s face it, I’m not listening to you, and you’re not listening to me, so what’s the point?

Instead, let’s look at this week’s happenings in the context of the whole decades-long debate. There’s a reason neither side is making any headway – both arguments are seriously flawed.

Here’s a breakdown of why both sides of the argument are doing it all wrong – and what they might have to be willing to do if they ever want to have a real logical discussion on the matter.

Pro-choicers

Yes, you, pro-choice person, you and your women’s rights and privacy and men are pigs and its your body, we’ve heard it all before. Here’s what you need to stop doing:

1. STOP pointing to Roe v. Wade as proof that you’re correct. This is foolish for a couple of reasons. First, you’re legitimizing government action. That means that you kind of have to back other government action – say, a healthcare bill that doesn’t support abortions – or the argument falls in on itself.

Second, many of your opponents, and many of your supporters, aren’t big fans of the Burger court. It’s not necessarily the court’s decisions, but more its activist attitude that push the limits of the Constitution. The fact that the court even took Roe v. Wade as a case, when abortion rights issues could have easily been left to the states, makes many anti-big-fed-gov folks shudder.

2. STOP stammering on about the “what-ifs”. Although they’re not thrilled about it, even the most hardcore pro-lifers are now willing to concede that rape, incest, and mother’s health are acceptable reasons to abort. And while there are contradicting studies done by contradicting agencies, none of them put rape, incest, mother’s health, or child’s health as the reason for even 10% of all abortions in America. Most studies put rape or incest combined at about 1%, and mother’s or child’s health at about 5-6%. Therefore, 93% or so of all abortions are done for personal reasons. If you argue about the what-ifs, you give the impression that all abortions have to be justified. And you’re going to have a tough time justifying the other 93%.

3. STOP using the oppressed women argument. This week, Rep. Alcee Hastings, (D, FL), said of the proposed amendments, “I foresee for poor women in America, a return to the dark ages.” When you say something like this, you are just BEGGING for a “poor American women, can’t kill their babies anymore, they have it so tough” response. At a time when our newspapers are decrying honor killings and arranged marriages and forced abortions on the other side of the world, the American public as a whole isn’t going to feel so bad for the American woman.

Pro-lifers

Yes, you, pro-life person, you and your it’s a child and it’s God’s child and pregnant teens are selfish and the man has a vote. We’ve heard it all before. Here’s what you need to stop doing:

1. STOP citing the Christian church, Catholic or otherwise. Organized Western religion isn’t as evil as its detractors make it out to be, but it kind of lost its credibility sometime during the Crusades. No matter where you stand on the more recent controversies of the various church – child abuse by Catholic priests, gay marriage issues in various protestant churches, etc – you can see why saying “The Pope Says” would turn a lot of people off to your argument immediately.

2. STOP demonizing those who have abortions. Insulting or shunning a confused, alone, and guilt-ridden teenage girl doesn’t give you the moral upper-hand. It makes you look like a dick. Of those 93% of abortions for personal reasons in America, do you really think 93% of them came easily and left no emotional scars? When you demonize those who have abortions, you are ensuring that nobody who has ever had an abortion, or whose friend or family member has had an abortion, will want to listen to your opinions.

3. STOP teaming up with those against birth control. I understand that pro-lifers all have to stick together if they want to have a fighting chance, yada yada. But seriously, if you claim to be about preventing abortions, and then you refuse to teach safe sex, your arguments are hopelessly hypocritical. Religious convictions are strong – all premarital sex is wrong according to your faith. But you can’t be ignorant enough to believe that preaching abstinence is going to stop people from having sex. If you really, honestly, truly care about preventing the aborting of innocent human lives, you should be really, honestly, truly dedicated to preventing unwanted pregnancies in the first place.

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So what can lead to successful discussions?

How about starting with an acceptance that nobody wants abortions to happen? Gloria Steinem doesn’t like killing babies any more than Joey Ratzinger. Obama took a lot of heat for his answer at the Saddleback debate last year that deciding when life began was “above my pay scale.” But really, maybe we should all adopt some similar stances.

Religiously, scientifically, physiologically, am I qualified to determine when life begins? Not really. But as a human being, I am more than qualified to determine that I don’t want the right of life being deprived from any other person, present or future.

If the divisive language and mutual hatred towards each other could be tempered a little bit, maybe we could work together on preventing abortions. If everybody had all the information – for example, if all teens knew the consequences of sex and how to have safe sex, and if all pregnant mothers knew when their fetus had fingernails, then maybe we could make progress that nobody could argue with.

So what about this health care bill? Who’s correct? Who’s being ignorant?

Maybe if we hadn’t spent the last four decades arguing, we’d know by now.
Comments
#1 | rogerinla on November 07 2009 16:23:15
timroy,
I agree that it isn't fair to beat up on women who have succumbed to the siren songs of the abortion industry, pressures from their boyfriends or spouses, or some other influence. The many fights over sonograms and also what risks, etc. to include within "informed consent" for an abortion implies that many women are making bad judgements based on incomplete information, not because of evil within their hearts.

I absolutely reject your statement that "nobody wants abortions to happen." There is a whole industry built on the premise that an abortion is no big deal - just another harmless procedure to prevent inconvenience. There's a whole PR and lobbying industry built on the same premise. These people DO want abortions to happen. I'm happy to "demonize" them. We saw ideologues throughout the twentieth century, for treasure or political gain, classify human beings as if they were objects - always with the same deadly consequences.
#2 | MplsVala on November 07 2009 19:35:22
There is a whole industry built on the premise that an abortion is no big deal - just another harmless procedure to prevent inconvenience. There's a whole PR and lobbying industry built on the same premise.
This is news to me. Where do you find this thriving industry? It's not like that here.
#3 | showerjuggernaut on November 07 2009 20:15:31
i'm pro-choice, and i don't want to argue about abortion rights. i just want to say that 'industry' is the wrong word. nobody is making money off this.

and nobody likes abortions...it's pro-choice, not pro-abortion. people are just scared that taking away a women's right to choose will set a standard for the gov. telling women what they can and can't do.

does this mean i and others like me are right? i don't know. but i can guarantee you that nobody is out there encouraging women to terminate pregnancies just for fun.
#4 | rwahrens on November 07 2009 22:22:57
When the "pro-choicers" gave themselves that name,it was done for a reason. That reason is also what the case of Roe vs. Wade was settled on - that a women has the right to privacy, and that means that the government doesn't have the right to invade it and dictate to her and her doctor what they can or cannot do to ensure her future health and welfare. She has a legal right to her choice of care.

Look, the Constitution was not intended to be a static document, nor was it intended to keep the US in a rut forever. The Founders provided us with two ways to evolve that document over the centuries. One was the formal amendment process, based upon popular elective processes. The other was through the court system.

The amendment process is hard to complete. It was meant to be, to prevent it from being easily changed to benefit an elite few. On the other hand, the courts were designed to protect the rights of the minority against the power of the government, and to help the Constitution, and how it is interpreted, evolve with the times and how the law is practiced.

You see, the Constitution is a blueprint - a blueprint of how the Government should be organized, how it should operate and what powers it should have. It is done this way to LIMIT the power of the government. Just because the Bill of Rights was designed to protect a few specific rights does NOT mean that ONLY those rights are ours, and the government should only be prevented from violating those few.

The main problem with the pro-lifers is not just their hypocrisy, but the fact that they want the Federal Government, or failing that, the States, to interfere in the rights of every American to decide, for themselves, what health care they should be able to procure from a legal, licensed practitioner.

Your assertion that the argument should be decided by limiting the NEED for abortions is laudable - but shortsighted. Yes, we should do all we can to limit the need for abortions, but that must include economic issues too. Millions of women do not decide to abort only because of health or rape, but because they just can't AFFORD it.

Children are expensive. They've gotta be fed, sheltered, clothed, educated, raised. Take it from a guy that's raised three girls to adulthood - I coulda done a LOT with the money I spent on those three! Of course, I wouldn't trade the experience, nor the money, for anything in the world. But the point is that there are millions of Americans, most of them poor, that truly don't have the money to raise another child - many can't even afford the ones they've got.

And Conservatives want to keep them from ANY kind of assistance, including the idiotic abstinence programs they put into place under the Bush Administration.

I am sorry, but the fact that the Conservatives have always been against government interference with Americans' privacy - except for abortion - is so beyond simple hypocrisy that it is hard to describe it.

It is NOT the job of the Federal or State governments to enforce religious dogma - and if we let anti-abortion laws get passed, that is EXACTLY what will be happening, along with an alarming amount of privacy violation to boot.

[Oh, and in fact, for religious groups to claim that god is against abortion - that is false:

"If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished according as the woman's husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine.

"And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, Eye for eye, tooth for tooth . . ."--Ex. 21:22-25


So god places less value on the life of a fetus than that of the life of the mother. Otherwise, there are NO prohibitions against abortion that god laid upon his people, nor did Jesus make any changes to that in his ministry.

There may be some arguments regarding Jesus' preaching about the sanctity of life itself, but other teachings he gave also noted that he did not replace the law, but that it would stand unchanged.

So no real help there.]
#5 | timroy on November 08 2009 09:54:04
See that's just what I'm talking about, the fallacies of both arguments.

You point out Biblical contradictions, which shows why that argument sucks, and you also justify abortion with economic reasons.

Having to justify it means that there is inherently something wrong with it. Either you shouldn't have to justify it, or you should be able to justify any crimes people commit.

I'm not preaching here, just saying that's why the argument doesn't get anywhere...both sides are seriously flawed, but both are repeated ad nauseum.
#6 | MplsVala on November 08 2009 11:16:11
I don't see your objections, Timroy. That was a lovely and well-thought out comment from rwahrens. Your complaints read off the wall to me. No, he doesn't point to Biblical contraditions, he flat out says that the bible doesn't preach against abortion. For hundreds of years, the Catholics believed that it was okay until quickning; until some Pope came along and changed that. And he is certainly not justifying abortion for economic reasons. He was attempting to explain the obvious; this is a fact-based statement of why some women do it. Justifying abortion has nothing to do with it. It seems to me that your own arguments are pretty seriously flawed.
#7 | rwahrens on November 08 2009 15:36:36
Timroy,

MplsVala is right, I was pointing out that the Conservatives' excuse that "god hates it" is a lie. It is simply a "hot button" issue that the leaders of the right wing use to excite the base, nothing more, nothing less.

The fact is, abortion exists. It happens. It has happened for thousands of years, as long as women have been getting pregnant with children they didn't want or couldn't afford. Instead of sweeping it under the rug by outlawing it, we need to address it and regulate it.

What the right wingers don't seem to understand, and this applies to such things as drugs, sex and what the Conservatives think of as "sinful" - is that one cannot successfully legislate values or morality. Oh, one can TRY. But as we found out during Prohibition and lately in the War on Drugs, it never works. You just make criminals of normal people, fill the jails and prisons, spend boatloads of money doing it - and at the end of the day, you haven't accomplished anything of worth. In fact, you have done plenty of harm, by ruining the lives of the people you criminalized and threw in prison, killing (in essence) those who got addicted to the substance you outlawed instead of treating it as an illness, and created a whole new, violent class of criminal in the smugglers that went into business to provide the substances you outlawed instead of regulating them properly.

Same thing in the sex trade.

Because the religious majority has decided, based purely upon biblical "values", that prostitution is "bad", those that sell their bodies, and those that trade in those bodies, are lower than second class citizens. Prostitutes are ignored as a class of folks that deserve nothing, get no protection from law enforcement, and are left to be exploited, and often, enslaved and mistreated until they are discarded as too old or unattractive to be sold. They then are left to fall through the cracks of society to the rock bottom, where they die.

The "oldest profession" has not always been so maligned. Any number of ancient societies actually had classes of prostitutes that were honored as having high status. Many were priestesses, honored to use sex as a way to worship their goddess. Prostitutes in some societies were a safety valve, where husbands could go to "stray" in places that were socially acceptable instead of preying on another man's wife, or where young men could go to be introduced into the pleasures of the flesh and the social mores of their society - safely, without violating taboos and getting in trouble.

Again, abortion happens. It exists, and as long as there is a woman that finds she is pregnant and doesn't want to keep it, it will continue to happen. Legislating it away does NOT make it go away. It is simply forced underground, where those that practice it will be exposed to exploitation, possible physical harm, and possible prison if caught.

Yes, the root causes of abortion should be addressed - rape, incest, irresponsible and unprotected sex, economic hardship and poverty, irresponsible attitudes about using abortion as casually as a condom, oh the list goes on. Without addressing these problems, the numbers of women wanting abortions will only go up, so we do need to take action.

But in the meantime, forbidding abortion to those that feel the need to have it available is wrong, cruel and counterproductive.

...besides being a violation of a woman's right to decide her own form of medical care without the intrusion of the State.
#8 | timroy on November 09 2009 00:50:57
rwahrens -

Good points...lovely comment Smile

I think one notable difference is that all the other issues involved a person doing something and society, or the government, or whoever, telling them not to do it. The concept that there is a third party involved - the unborn child, or the fetus, or whatever people want to call it - is maybe what sets the abortion argument above the rest in terms of complexity and intensity.

In America especially, since we *theoretically* are a live-and-let-live society, for those who think the unborn is a living being, scientifically or religiously or whatever, it would seem abhorrent that that entity wouldn't have a say in the matter. Just the same, for those who don't think of the unborn that way, it would seem just as awful to infringe on the personal rights of a pregnant woman.

Whatever it is, abortion seems to be THE topic that nobody budges on...that's the real reason to focus on prevention, because the discussion end of things hasn't accomplished much.

As far as social norms, should "right" or "wrong" be relative to current ideas? Sometimes it seems not - we accept that racial or sexual predjudice is wrong, no matter what the majority in a given society think. But sometimes is seems so - think about the FCC fining broadcasters...maybe a society should have the right to decide what is acceptable and not in its public sphere.
#9 | BoilerUp on November 09 2009 17:33:28
But in the meantime, forbidding abortion to those that feel the need to have it available is wrong, cruel and counterproductive.

...besides being a violation of a woman's right to decide her own form of medical care without the intrusion of the State.


The biggest issue that I have with the debate (as it relates to how this article started out, aka about federal funding of abortion) is that when you use statements like the one above, it is too easy to take the word abortion and replace it with any other elective surgery. Yes, that's right, ELECTIVE, I said it. In the 93% (mentioned earlier) of abortions that have nothing to do with health, only choice, the decision to have or not have a baby has to do solely with how the mother feels about it. So, if we use abortion as a precedent to federally funded elective surgery, where does it stop? People will claim that they are clinically depressed because their boobs aren't big enough, and the only fix is a little silicone. Or their nose doesn't match their face, and has caused them to be made fun of their whole life, and if it's not fixed, they'll go postal on someone. I'd like to think that most of the pro-life vs. pro-choice debate is more about where the FUNDING comes from. I might not like the fact that someone goes out and gets an abortion, but looking through a non-partisan filter, as long as I (speaking generically as an honest US citizen and taxpayer) do not have to pay for it, then more power to you. It's a free country. But when you come crawling up to me (again, the US citizens) and demand that I pay for your CHOICE, what CHOICE do I have in the matter??
#10 | rwahrens on November 09 2009 21:33:41
In America especially, since we *theoretically* are a live-and-let-live society, for those who think the unborn is a living being, scientifically or religiously or whatever, it would seem abhorrent that that entity wouldn't have a say in the matter. Just the same, for those who don't think of the unborn that way, it would seem just as awful to infringe on the personal rights of a pregnant woman.


Since we cannot determine, as a society, where that beginning is, the default is, legally, where it has been traditionally. That is where the fetus is considered to be a viable separate living entity, before which, it is simply parasitic and has no ability to live on its own. Those who have a different opinion, based mainly upon religious values, are free to live accordingly, and refrain from obtaining abortions on their own. None of the rest of us want to get into your business.

The issue is NOT whether abortion is right or wrong, but whether the government has any say in when, where, how or why any person should choose to have one. There is no legal precedent to settle this issue, so we are flying new territory.

Traditionally, also, an important waypoint is that of birth. We register births, we count age from birth (at least the US does, the Chinese count age from conception), we only allow the father legal claim to the child upon birth, and a whole host of other legalities are based upon when we are born. The only place where the law cares about us before birth is if the mother is murdered while pregnant. Then we use the fetus as an excuse to tack on more prison time for the murderer. If an estate is divided between the decease's children (and has a clause that cuts in future children), and the wife is pregnant when the father dies, it is not divided to include the unborn child, assuming the estate is finalized prior to the birth, but only includes the living children that have already been born. A child is not legally named until birth.

You cannot claim an unborn child on your tax returns. An unborn child is not considered a legal person before a court, but is considered a part of the mother. (This may be a bit hazy, as I am not a lawyer, and do not have access to search engines that may be able to determine if a court somewhere has granted such status to an unborn child - I have not read a news article to that affect as of this time.)

So it seems that our society has pretty much decided up until now that an unborn child is not a real person until he/she is born. Some exceptions are granted after medical viability, but legal personhood is only enabled at birth.

There is a reason why a Birth Certificate is considered a legal document of your identity! If you are not born, you have no birth certificate and have no legal identity.

So just as living children are considered under the care and guardianship of the parents after birth, the unborn fetus is considered part of the mother, which, medically, she is. Until that child is or can become (after viability) a legal entity, it has no say in how the mother obtains medical care that affects it.

It is HER decision, and the government has no say in it. It is funny how the Conservatives go all ape-sh*t over government intrusion in almost every aspect of their lives, until sex and abortion are mentioned.

You can't have it both ways.
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