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When candidate Obama wanted the stimulus talks to start rolling, even President W. couldn’t say no. The man has clout. We’ve seen it time and again…what B.O. wants, B.O. gets.
So now, President Obama wants healthcare reform to happen…immediately. And nothing can stop him…not the lobbyists from insurance companies, not the majority of the country that is happy with their current plan, and certainly not common financial sense. Nothing can stop him, except…
Abortion.
That’s right, the ol’ A-bomb, capable of ruining any friendship, romantic relationship, religious commitment, dinner party, or congressional bill, simply by becoming part of the discussion.
According to some unnamed Democratic sources, when the final version of the House healthcare bill makes its rounds for last-minute amendments – usually when pork appears and 1200 pages becomes 3000 – many pro-life Dems are going to offer amendments that would make using the “public option” plan for abortions illegal.
(Quick rundown of the house bill – if you don’t like what your health insurance company has to offer, you could exchange those services with the government plan, the public option, which is supposed to offer equal treatment at a fair price. These amendments would say that you can not exchange any part of your current plan that deals with abortions. So if you want insurance for it, you can’t use federal money, you have to stick with your current plan.)
The amendments, if passed, would allow for abortions covered by the public option in cases of rape, incest, or danger to the mother’s health.
Needless to say, this is not a minor bump in the legislative process, and it hasn’t been since that little court case 36 years ago, the one you would think happened yesterday, as the emotion surrounding it has only increased in the time since.
Now, I’m not going to sit here and debate pro-choice vs. pro-life. There’s no point. It’s a tired debate. It’s certainly still relevant, and as a pro-lifer both religiously and scientifically, I am not against open discussion. But let’s face it, I’m not listening to you, and you’re not listening to me, so what’s the point?
Instead, let’s look at this week’s happenings in the context of the whole decades-long debate. There’s a reason neither side is making any headway – both arguments are seriously flawed.
Here’s a breakdown of why both sides of the argument are doing it all wrong – and what they might have to be willing to do if they ever want to have a real logical discussion on the matter.
Pro-choicers
Yes, you, pro-choice person, you and your women’s rights and privacy and men are pigs and its your body, we’ve heard it all before. Here’s what you need to stop doing:
1. STOP pointing to Roe v. Wade as proof that you’re correct. This is foolish for a couple of reasons. First, you’re legitimizing government action. That means that you kind of have to back other government action – say, a healthcare bill that doesn’t support abortions – or the argument falls in on itself.
Second, many of your opponents, and many of your supporters, aren’t big fans of the Burger court. It’s not necessarily the court’s decisions, but more its activist attitude that push the limits of the Constitution. The fact that the court even took Roe v. Wade as a case, when abortion rights issues could have easily been left to the states, makes many anti-big-fed-gov folks shudder.
2. STOP stammering on about the “what-ifs”. Although they’re not thrilled about it, even the most hardcore pro-lifers are now willing to concede that rape, incest, and mother’s health are acceptable reasons to abort. And while there are contradicting studies done by contradicting agencies, none of them put rape, incest, mother’s health, or child’s health as the reason for even 10% of all abortions in America. Most studies put rape or incest combined at about 1%, and mother’s or child’s health at about 5-6%. Therefore, 93% or so of all abortions are done for personal reasons. If you argue about the what-ifs, you give the impression that all abortions have to be justified. And you’re going to have a tough time justifying the other 93%.
3. STOP using the oppressed women argument. This week, Rep. Alcee Hastings, (D, FL), said of the proposed amendments, “I foresee for poor women in America, a return to the dark ages.” When you say something like this, you are just BEGGING for a “poor American women, can’t kill their babies anymore, they have it so tough” response. At a time when our newspapers are decrying honor killings and arranged marriages and forced abortions on the other side of the world, the American public as a whole isn’t going to feel so bad for the American woman.
Pro-lifers
Yes, you, pro-life person, you and your it’s a child and it’s God’s child and pregnant teens are selfish and the man has a vote. We’ve heard it all before. Here’s what you need to stop doing:
1. STOP citing the Christian church, Catholic or otherwise. Organized Western religion isn’t as evil as its detractors make it out to be, but it kind of lost its credibility sometime during the Crusades. No matter where you stand on the more recent controversies of the various church – child abuse by Catholic priests, gay marriage issues in various protestant churches, etc – you can see why saying “The Pope Says” would turn a lot of people off to your argument immediately.
2. STOP demonizing those who have abortions. Insulting or shunning a confused, alone, and guilt-ridden teenage girl doesn’t give you the moral upper-hand. It makes you look like a dick. Of those 93% of abortions for personal reasons in America, do you really think 93% of them came easily and left no emotional scars? When you demonize those who have abortions, you are ensuring that nobody who has ever had an abortion, or whose friend or family member has had an abortion, will want to listen to your opinions.
3. STOP teaming up with those against birth control. I understand that pro-lifers all have to stick together if they want to have a fighting chance, yada yada. But seriously, if you claim to be about preventing abortions, and then you refuse to teach safe sex, your arguments are hopelessly hypocritical. Religious convictions are strong – all premarital sex is wrong according to your faith. But you can’t be ignorant enough to believe that preaching abstinence is going to stop people from having sex. If you really, honestly, truly care about preventing the aborting of innocent human lives, you should be really, honestly, truly dedicated to preventing unwanted pregnancies in the first place.
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So what can lead to successful discussions?
How about starting with an acceptance that nobody wants abortions to happen? Gloria Steinem doesn’t like killing babies any more than Joey Ratzinger. Obama took a lot of heat for his answer at the Saddleback debate last year that deciding when life began was “above my pay scale.” But really, maybe we should all adopt some similar stances.
Religiously, scientifically, physiologically, am I qualified to determine when life begins? Not really. But as a human being, I am more than qualified to determine that I don’t want the right of life being deprived from any other person, present or future.
If the divisive language and mutual hatred towards each other could be tempered a little bit, maybe we could work together on preventing abortions. If everybody had all the information – for example, if all teens knew the consequences of sex and how to have safe sex, and if all pregnant mothers knew when their fetus had fingernails, then maybe we could make progress that nobody could argue with.
So what about this health care bill? Who’s correct? Who’s being ignorant?
Maybe if we hadn’t spent the last four decades arguing, we’d know by now.
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I agree that it isn't fair to beat up on women who have succumbed to the siren songs of the abortion industry, pressures from their boyfriends or spouses, or some other influence. The many fights over sonograms and also what risks, etc. to include within "informed consent" for an abortion implies that many women are making bad judgements based on incomplete information, not because of evil within their hearts.
I absolutely reject your statement that "nobody wants abortions to happen." There is a whole industry built on the premise that an abortion is no big deal - just another harmless procedure to prevent inconvenience. There's a whole PR and lobbying industry built on the same premise. These people DO want abortions to happen. I'm happy to "demonize" them. We saw ideologues throughout the twentieth century, for treasure or political gain, classify human beings as if they were objects - always with the same deadly consequences.